Sometimes we can forget that Kundalini is within us and that we must work our own self and systems in order to awaken to this divine connection that we all have and hold.
We have fast expectations these days as in many ways what we want is readily available for the asking or for the purchasing. Working or growing a situation with in ourselves seems quaint and perhaps anachronistic. We have come, in many ways, to expect instant gratification.
Kundalini is beyond a mere system for acquiring. Or a technique for barter. It requires a practice and a diligence that often can go unrequited in our haste to achieve and receive with out due diligence towards the conditioning of the body(s). In many ways it will not awaken until the person has achieved the right frequency of practice and modifications. It doesn’t always happen regardless of what we may do but in "best case scenarios" we want to have awakenings that are not damaging. Conditioning is central to this.
Yes some people just have it come to them and yes others have to work for it to come to them. We all come with different agendas and learning curves and so comparisons really do not do anyone justice when it comes to the Kundalini. Even those who have it come to them without working towards it will have to condition their body(s) to make way for the changes that come because of its presence.
That can be a very scary time for the person as it feels as if they have been invaded by an unknown phenomena with no explanations insight. So it is best to work as many issues out of the body and psychologies first before the Kundalini comes to help keep fear out of the equation.
There is always a high degree of personal responsibility that comes with this gift. The responsibility of "attainment" and the responsibility of "containment" are not far apart and there are always opportunities given by the Kundalini itself for the person to learn the reasons for these necessary practices towards the conditioning of the attainment and containment of Kundalini.
Please consider this as you do your practice and please remember that this is about "you" and your ascension process. It is about what you feel you "must" do and what you are "willing" to do to get there.
No magic wands. No special Akashic records librarian on a floating stool with a pointy hat that comes down on a bright blue star with fairy dust being flung at you filling your head with sparkling 12 strand DNA activations or Chi balls or celestial music filling your ears.....typically not anyway -lol.
We must prove the appropriateness for our reception of the Kundalini by our actions towards ourselves and our actions towards others. Are we willing to practice day in and day out every day without instant gratification expectations for the inculcation of the Kundalini within us?Are we willing to modify our behaviors and actions and bodies into vessels that are able to hold the very strong and loving charge of the Kundalini? Are we willing to make it a personal responsibility?
We must prove the appropriateness for our reception of the Kundalini by our actions towards ourselves and our actions towards others.